![]() ![]() ![]() The person seeks to correct the wrong that they think they have experienced by putting another person to suffer. So: Why do we really become revengeful after a social conflict – and why is it such a bad coping strategy?Ī person seeking revenge or vengeance is aiming to return the harm that they have experienced, to the one who they think caused the pain. This could be for example a conflict, debate, being socially humiliated, being name-called or having a break-up. Thus, I want to narrow the topic a bit to social revenge: by social revenge I mean often more trivial situations in which a person takes revenge on someone because they feel socially hurt. It’s quite normal to feel aggression if someone hurts your beloved ones, breaks into your house, or intentionally causes you severe harm. This doesn’t mean that there wouldn’t be cases where it indeed is smart to at least seek justice. I no longer feel the “entitlement” to be the one to “share justice” for small reasons – actually, I find this way of thinking a bit silly. But there is a massive difference in the intensity of those fantasies. They are quite normal and they are one of our coping mechanisms. Naturally, we all have revenge fantasies. Most of all, I have discovered how much happier I am when I’m focusing on my future, the brilliant people around me, and my own success. After working very closely with Ceranchia for the past half a year, I have taken this self-improvement to the next level. I feel I have pretty successfully managed to turn my resentful nature into something more constructive and productive. And oh how ashamed I am about it now after processing my thoughts and reasons. This was for a few years, during a time that I had a hard time regulating my emotions. (5.00) Catalans Dragons v Huddersfield Giants Tour de France Stage 12: To Plateau de Beille So for a true taste of Ireland right here in Thessaloniki be sure to drop in for a pint and some food and catch all the summer’s sporting action live at The Dubliner. The Dubliner Irish Bar & Restaurant is the closest you’ll get to Dublin outside of the real thing itself. What better way to enjoy the action in Thessaloniki than with a nice cool pint and some of the best European style food to be found in the city.Īnd of course staying true to our Irish heritage you can find all the summer’s GAA hurling and football action live and in great quality. The Tour de France is already well under way in its annual jaunt through the French countryside. Ireland’s own Rory McIlroy represented Europe’s best hope of stopping the runaway Jordan Spieth but the Scottish terrain has come a cropper for much more experienced players than the 21 year old American. In golf the British Open starts this weekend and Europe’s only major is due to be hotly contested. Australia won a crushing victory Down Under last time out, can England now take revenge on home soil. The Ashes series sees England take on Australia in a continuation of the most storied Test series in cricket. The Rugby Championship sees New Zealand, Australia, South Africa and Argentina battle it out over the summer for the crown of the Southern Hemisphere’s best rugby team. Enjoy the rugby, cricket, golf, cycling and football live at our fully conditioned bar here in Ladadika at the heart of Thessaloniki. ![]() Throughout the summer you can catch all the big sporting events on the big screens here at The Dubliner – Irish Bar & Restaurant. ![]()
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